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brendenmoheit asked: I own the Fight Club movie & you do commentary on the special features. In the commentary you get asked if you will write a Fight Club 2. Your answer was "No" & "Nothing would be more boring then to write a sequel" What made you change your opinion?

chuckpalahniuk:

Because I miss Tyler.  And I’m curious about building a mythology similar to what Stephen King and H.P. Lovecraft have done within their work.  Simple as that.

What about the $$$$? That should be sweet too. God I love Fight Club. I jerked off to Brad Pitt from that movie so much..he was smoking hot. Smoking sizzling fucking hot. He was weird, crazy and hot. I think that had an effect on my taste of men as I grew older.

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Anonymous asked: Shut the fuck up about 50 shades of grey. No one fucking cares

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

asendingtheempyrean:

eriklovescharles:

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

winchesterinengland:

oh hun

let me just give you a quick run down of all the things wrong with this ask:

1-you assume i care what some asshole anon has to say when i have 300 pounds and i’m going kikass birthday shopping today

2-you assume id care about some asshole anon any other day of the year

3-i care about the 50 shades of grey thing. and whether you do or not is irrelevant to me because you are, after all, just an asshole anon

4- this is my blog and i’ll post whatever the fuck i want, if you cant take three fucking posts about something without turning into a soggy cum stained dishrag then i suggest you make use of that unfollow button because youre gross

5- lemme break this down for you

if you dont care about this 50 shades situation, you need to grow the fuck up and look at the facts

the fact is the book was so misinformed that all the practises about bdsm culture were ignored and shit all over.

he ignores the safeword

he legitimately rapes her

he never explains everything about bdsm culture to her, shes so misinformed its ridiculous

and all of this is going even more public than it already has and its being romanticised and released on valentines day 

like “happy valentines honey! i bought some ropes i dont actually know how to tie and a whip i dont actually know how to use and i’m going to just gloss over the fact you’re uncomfortable because that clearly doesnt matter!”

incorrect use of a whip can cause organ failure

incorrect knots used on wristst or feet can literally cause them to need to be amputated

its perpetuating rape culture in ways ive never seen it be advanced to this leve; and if you dont care then youre truly disgusting 

you dont care about the kids not fully understanding their sexuality being abused by older people who they think are totally allowed to do this shit?

you dont care about the people that will be raped because of this because hey apparently rape is sexy?

you dont care about the fact that the bdsm culture is, once again, being portrayed as people who are fucked up and must have been abused to be that way rather than normal people who enjoy a kink in their own homes?

you dont care about the fact that youre not supposed to bleed on your first time. ever. and now tons more girls are going to think that its completely normal? that tons more guys will? that tons of people are going to think its expected for the female to bleed when SHE WONT IF SHES BEEN SUFFICIENTLY TURNED ON AND STRETCHED ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD

you dont care about the stereotype of subs not actually enjoying bdsm culture is being widespread? that all subs dislike it and simply have an ulterior motive?

you dont care about the underlying message of the book being “a woman should give everything, including herself, to a man”?

you dont care about all the people in abusive relationships that will think “oh well this must be normal then” and stay there?

christian grey is a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. he isnt a dom. 

a dom loves his/her sub completely and the motto of bdsm is "safe, willing and sane" (or something like that anyone feel free to correct me)

it means that both partners have to be completely willing, with boundaries, safewords and everything worked out before they even think about touching eachother intimately. 

if something is a boundary, you dont fucking do it

that simple

if the safeword is used it stops. everything stops

that simple

a dom should treat his sub like a goddamn princess (unless they have prearranged and understand that he wont eg-pet play, slave play where anything outside of the bedroom is also in the same dynamic HOWEVER IT IS STILL CONSENSUAL SO IT IS STILL OKAY)

a dom is not christian grey

but millions of people are going to think he is and are going to think that thats the way bdsm should be and they’ll get involved in something very dangerous if they dont have the real facts.

that people will think its romantic because this shit is scheduled for valentines day  to treat your partner like shit, abuse her, and that what? getting them off absorbs you of all your shit? no. this is so fucking gross and im not taking a backseat when this shit happens

so in conclusion

literally fuck you, you insensitive fuck stain, this issue is so fucking important.

Wait a second. I understand this anon was wrong to tell you to “shut the fuck up..” That was stupid and rude. You can express anything you want on your blog.

However, I disagree that he/she needs to care about the book “50 Shades of Grey”. I mean - you can voice this opinion - but it sounds a bit strange.

Why should I or anyone else on the planet give a flying fuck about that fictional book. Seriously, you think I (and millions of others people) need to care about this fictional book? I guess I must be an “insensitive fuck stain” too - since I don’t find this issue “so fucking important”.

Are there any other “insensitive fuck stains” besides me on Tumblr? Actually, I bet my ex, Ashton, is another ‘insensitive fuck stain’ - I don’t think he gives a fuck about 50 Shades of Grey. LOL

I don’t really care either, but I think it’s still disturbing that the most awful piece of shit of dirty fanfiction has been made a book, and now a movie.

I mean, movie producers usually are prude when they have to show, like, a woman having pleasure, or consensual sex, on screen, but they agreed to make a movie about sexual abuse? Something is wrong here.

1. WE haven’t seen the movie. Therefore we have no idea of the changes probably made. IN other words; the screenplay and the actual book are probably going to be very different. They usually care…

2. Why shouldn’t there be books/movies about sexual abuse? How else do you have a conversation about this issue if you keep it hidden?

3. You are officially an insensitive fuck stain. Welcome to the club. :- )

1- What’s the point of making a movie from a book about sex if you don’t show sex?

2- The problem isn’t the sexual abuse, it’s the romanticization of sexual abuse. You won’t have a conversation about sexual abuse if it’s shown as sexy, romantic or whatever. If you want conversations about rape, watch The accused, for instance.

3- Thank you :)

PS: I’m kind of interested by the whole controversy around this movie because I love movies and I’m afraid of what cinema is becoming nowadays.

1. I never said they won’t show the sex in the movie. I said they could make changes with the relationship. But I’m sure there will be sex.

2. But sexual abuse is sometimes “complicated” because people are complicated. If everyone wrote everything according “to the book” - then fuck - literature would be boring as all fuck! Just look at what is considered “Hot” in fan-fiction! Regardless,I still think that it will create an important dialogue. Hiding it - or censoring it will always be worse.

3. Cinema these days is total bullshit. Movies are AFRAID of offending. We are getting total shit. No one wants anyone to feel offended; therefore no lines will be crossed. So this movie will probably be totally lame. Now look at Filth - that was fucking OFFENSIVE. That book was fucking OFFENSIVE. Where is the outrage? Oh please. Trust me; the more people scream about 50 Shades of Grey; the more books she is selling. :-)

eriklovescharles As always, you’ve explained your position with eloquence. Like you, I believe that there should be movies and books should tackle subjects that are uncomfortable and distasteful. I don’t believe in censorship, period. Insensitive fuck stain that I am, I can’t waste my time elaborating further because I think 50 Shades is stupid  and Christen Grey is a little bitch who needs me to jack off in his face. Now THAT would be a story.

abort abort abort abort - for fuck’s sake - Don’t say another word Ashton, she’s only 15 years old! Fuck, I’ve been having a discussion about sex, bdsm, 50 shades of grey etc with a 15 year old child! ABORT ABORT ABORT. I TAKE back everything I fucking said.

Jesus F’ing Christ. If my kid read this book (yes I’m a parent) - I wouldn’t be happy about it at all. Definitely would have a discussion of the book with her. I feel dirtier than Christian Grey’s enemas right now.

How the fuck do I delete this shit …? Ugh.

I hope it isn’t me you’re talking about. I ain’t no 15yo, man ;)

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Anonymous asked: Shut the fuck up about 50 shades of grey. No one fucking cares

asendingtheempyrean:

eriklovescharles:

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

winchesterinengland:

oh hun

let me just give you a quick run down of all the things wrong with this ask:

1-you assume i care what some asshole anon has to say when i have 300 pounds and i’m going kikass birthday shopping today

2-you assume id care about some asshole anon any other day of the year

3-i care about the 50 shades of grey thing. and whether you do or not is irrelevant to me because you are, after all, just an asshole anon

4- this is my blog and i’ll post whatever the fuck i want, if you cant take three fucking posts about something without turning into a soggy cum stained dishrag then i suggest you make use of that unfollow button because youre gross

5- lemme break this down for you

if you dont care about this 50 shades situation, you need to grow the fuck up and look at the facts

the fact is the book was so misinformed that all the practises about bdsm culture were ignored and shit all over.

he ignores the safeword

he legitimately rapes her

he never explains everything about bdsm culture to her, shes so misinformed its ridiculous

and all of this is going even more public than it already has and its being romanticised and released on valentines day 

like “happy valentines honey! i bought some ropes i dont actually know how to tie and a whip i dont actually know how to use and i’m going to just gloss over the fact you’re uncomfortable because that clearly doesnt matter!”

incorrect use of a whip can cause organ failure

incorrect knots used on wristst or feet can literally cause them to need to be amputated

its perpetuating rape culture in ways ive never seen it be advanced to this leve; and if you dont care then youre truly disgusting 

you dont care about the kids not fully understanding their sexuality being abused by older people who they think are totally allowed to do this shit?

you dont care about the people that will be raped because of this because hey apparently rape is sexy?

you dont care about the fact that the bdsm culture is, once again, being portrayed as people who are fucked up and must have been abused to be that way rather than normal people who enjoy a kink in their own homes?

you dont care about the fact that youre not supposed to bleed on your first time. ever. and now tons more girls are going to think that its completely normal? that tons more guys will? that tons of people are going to think its expected for the female to bleed when SHE WONT IF SHES BEEN SUFFICIENTLY TURNED ON AND STRETCHED ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD

you dont care about the stereotype of subs not actually enjoying bdsm culture is being widespread? that all subs dislike it and simply have an ulterior motive?

you dont care about the underlying message of the book being “a woman should give everything, including herself, to a man”?

you dont care about all the people in abusive relationships that will think “oh well this must be normal then” and stay there?

christian grey is a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. he isnt a dom. 

a dom loves his/her sub completely and the motto of bdsm is "safe, willing and sane" (or something like that anyone feel free to correct me)

it means that both partners have to be completely willing, with boundaries, safewords and everything worked out before they even think about touching eachother intimately. 

if something is a boundary, you dont fucking do it

that simple

if the safeword is used it stops. everything stops

that simple

a dom should treat his sub like a goddamn princess (unless they have prearranged and understand that he wont eg-pet play, slave play where anything outside of the bedroom is also in the same dynamic HOWEVER IT IS STILL CONSENSUAL SO IT IS STILL OKAY)

a dom is not christian grey

but millions of people are going to think he is and are going to think that thats the way bdsm should be and they’ll get involved in something very dangerous if they dont have the real facts.

that people will think its romantic because this shit is scheduled for valentines day  to treat your partner like shit, abuse her, and that what? getting them off absorbs you of all your shit? no. this is so fucking gross and im not taking a backseat when this shit happens

so in conclusion

literally fuck you, you insensitive fuck stain, this issue is so fucking important.

Wait a second. I understand this anon was wrong to tell you to “shut the fuck up..” That was stupid and rude. You can express anything you want on your blog.

However, I disagree that he/she needs to care about the book “50 Shades of Grey”. I mean - you can voice this opinion - but it sounds a bit strange.

Why should I or anyone else on the planet give a flying fuck about that fictional book. Seriously, you think I (and millions of others people) need to care about this fictional book? I guess I must be an “insensitive fuck stain” too - since I don’t find this issue “so fucking important”.

Are there any other “insensitive fuck stains” besides me on Tumblr? Actually, I bet my ex, Ashton, is another ‘insensitive fuck stain’ - I don’t think he gives a fuck about 50 Shades of Grey. LOL

I don’t really care either, but I think it’s still disturbing that the most awful piece of shit of dirty fanfiction has been made a book, and now a movie.

I mean, movie producers usually are prude when they have to show, like, a woman having pleasure, or consensual sex, on screen, but they agreed to make a movie about sexual abuse? Something is wrong here.

1. WE haven’t seen the movie. Therefore we have no idea of the changes probably made. IN other words; the screenplay and the actual book are probably going to be very different. They usually care…

2. Why shouldn’t there be books/movies about sexual abuse? How else do you have a conversation about this issue if you keep it hidden?

3. You are officially an insensitive fuck stain. Welcome to the club. :- )

1- What’s the point of making a movie from a book about sex if you don’t show sex?

2- The problem isn’t the sexual abuse, it’s the romanticization of sexual abuse. You won’t have a conversation about sexual abuse if it’s shown as sexy, romantic or whatever. If you want conversations about rape, watch The accused, for instance.

3- Thank you :)

PS: I’m kind of interested by the whole controversy around this movie because I love movies and I’m afraid of what cinema is becoming nowadays.

1. I never said they won’t show the sex in the movie. I said they could make changes with the relationship. But I’m sure there will be sex.

2. But sexual abuse is sometimes “complicated” because people are complicated. If everyone wrote everything according “to the book” - then fuck - literature would be boring as all fuck! Just look at what is considered “Hot” in fan-fiction! Regardless,I still think that it will create an important dialogue. Hiding it - or censoring it will always be worse.

3. Cinema these days is total bullshit. Movies are AFRAID of offending. We are getting total shit. No one wants anyone to feel offended; therefore no lines will be crossed. So this movie will probably be totally lame. Now look at Filth - that was fucking OFFENSIVE. That book was fucking OFFENSIVE. Where is the outrage? Oh please. Trust me; the more people scream about 50 Shades of Grey; the more books she is selling. :-)

eriklovescharles As always, you’ve explained your position with eloquence. Like you, I believe that there should be movies and books should tackle subjects that are uncomfortable and distasteful. I don’t believe in censorship, period. Insensitive fuck stain that I am, I can’t waste my time elaborating further because I think 50 Shades is stupid  and Christen Grey is a little bitch who needs me to jack off in his face. Now THAT would be a story.

abort abort abort abort - for fuck’s sake - Don’t say another word Ashton, she’s only 15 years old! Fuck, I’ve been having a discussion about sex, bdsm, 50 shades of grey etc with a 15 year old child! ABORT ABORT ABORT. I TAKE back everything I fucking said.

Jesus F’ing Christ. If my kid read this book (yes I’m a parent) - I wouldn’t be happy about it at all. Definitely would have a discussion of the book with her. I feel dirtier than Christian Grey’s enemas right now.

How the fuck do I delete this shit …? Ugh.

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Anonymous asked: Shut the fuck up about 50 shades of grey. No one fucking cares

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

winchesterinengland:

oh hun

let me just give you a quick run down of all the things wrong with this ask:

1-you assume i care what some asshole anon has to say when i have 300 pounds and i’m going kikass birthday shopping today

2-you assume id care about some asshole anon any other day of the year

3-i care about the 50 shades of grey thing. and whether you do or not is irrelevant to me because you are, after all, just an asshole anon

4- this is my blog and i’ll post whatever the fuck i want, if you cant take three fucking posts about something without turning into a soggy cum stained dishrag then i suggest you make use of that unfollow button because youre gross

5- lemme break this down for you

if you dont care about this 50 shades situation, you need to grow the fuck up and look at the facts

the fact is the book was so misinformed that all the practises about bdsm culture were ignored and shit all over.

he ignores the safeword

he legitimately rapes her

he never explains everything about bdsm culture to her, shes so misinformed its ridiculous

and all of this is going even more public than it already has and its being romanticised and released on valentines day 

like “happy valentines honey! i bought some ropes i dont actually know how to tie and a whip i dont actually know how to use and i’m going to just gloss over the fact you’re uncomfortable because that clearly doesnt matter!”

incorrect use of a whip can cause organ failure

incorrect knots used on wristst or feet can literally cause them to need to be amputated

its perpetuating rape culture in ways ive never seen it be advanced to this leve; and if you dont care then youre truly disgusting 

you dont care about the kids not fully understanding their sexuality being abused by older people who they think are totally allowed to do this shit?

you dont care about the people that will be raped because of this because hey apparently rape is sexy?

you dont care about the fact that the bdsm culture is, once again, being portrayed as people who are fucked up and must have been abused to be that way rather than normal people who enjoy a kink in their own homes?

you dont care about the fact that youre not supposed to bleed on your first time. ever. and now tons more girls are going to think that its completely normal? that tons more guys will? that tons of people are going to think its expected for the female to bleed when SHE WONT IF SHES BEEN SUFFICIENTLY TURNED ON AND STRETCHED ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD

you dont care about the stereotype of subs not actually enjoying bdsm culture is being widespread? that all subs dislike it and simply have an ulterior motive?

you dont care about the underlying message of the book being “a woman should give everything, including herself, to a man”?

you dont care about all the people in abusive relationships that will think “oh well this must be normal then” and stay there?

christian grey is a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. he isnt a dom. 

a dom loves his/her sub completely and the motto of bdsm is "safe, willing and sane" (or something like that anyone feel free to correct me)

it means that both partners have to be completely willing, with boundaries, safewords and everything worked out before they even think about touching eachother intimately. 

if something is a boundary, you dont fucking do it

that simple

if the safeword is used it stops. everything stops

that simple

a dom should treat his sub like a goddamn princess (unless they have prearranged and understand that he wont eg-pet play, slave play where anything outside of the bedroom is also in the same dynamic HOWEVER IT IS STILL CONSENSUAL SO IT IS STILL OKAY)

a dom is not christian grey

but millions of people are going to think he is and are going to think that thats the way bdsm should be and they’ll get involved in something very dangerous if they dont have the real facts.

that people will think its romantic because this shit is scheduled for valentines day  to treat your partner like shit, abuse her, and that what? getting them off absorbs you of all your shit? no. this is so fucking gross and im not taking a backseat when this shit happens

so in conclusion

literally fuck you, you insensitive fuck stain, this issue is so fucking important.

Wait a second. I understand this anon was wrong to tell you to “shut the fuck up..” That was stupid and rude. You can express anything you want on your blog.

However, I disagree that he/she needs to care about the book “50 Shades of Grey”. I mean - you can voice this opinion - but it sounds a bit strange.

Why should I or anyone else on the planet give a flying fuck about that fictional book. Seriously, you think I (and millions of others people) need to care about this fictional book? I guess I must be an “insensitive fuck stain” too - since I don’t find this issue “so fucking important”.

Are there any other “insensitive fuck stains” besides me on Tumblr? Actually, I bet my ex, Ashton, is another ‘insensitive fuck stain’ - I don’t think he gives a fuck about 50 Shades of Grey. LOL

I don’t really care either, but I think it’s still disturbing that the most awful piece of shit of dirty fanfiction has been made a book, and now a movie.

I mean, movie producers usually are prude when they have to show, like, a woman having pleasure, or consensual sex, on screen, but they agreed to make a movie about sexual abuse? Something is wrong here.

1. WE haven’t seen the movie. Therefore we have no idea of the changes probably made. IN other words; the screenplay and the actual book are probably going to be very different. They usually care…

2. Why shouldn’t there be books/movies about sexual abuse? How else do you have a conversation about this issue if you keep it hidden?

3. You are officially an insensitive fuck stain. Welcome to the club. :- )

1- What’s the point of making a movie from a book about sex if you don’t show sex?

2- The problem isn’t the sexual abuse, it’s the romanticization of sexual abuse. You won’t have a conversation about sexual abuse if it’s shown as sexy, romantic or whatever. If you want conversations about rape, watch The accused, for instance.

3- Thank you :)

PS: I’m kind of interested by the whole controversy around this movie because I love movies and I’m afraid of what cinema is becoming nowadays.

1. I never said they won’t show the sex in the movie. I said they could make changes with the relationship. But I’m sure there will be sex.

2. But sexual abuse is sometimes “complicated” because people are complicated. If everyone wrote everything according “to the book” - then fuck - literature would be boring as all fuck! Just look at what is considered “Hot” in fan-fiction! Regardless,I still think that it will create an important dialogue. Hiding it - or censoring it will always be worse.

3. Cinema these days is total bullshit. Movies are AFRAID of offending. We are getting total shit. No one wants anyone to feel offended; therefore no lines will be crossed. So this movie will probably be totally lame. Now look at Filth - that was fucking OFFENSIVE. That book was fucking OFFENSIVE. Where is the outrage? Oh please. Trust me; the more people scream about 50 Shades of Grey; the more books she is selling. :-)

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Anonymous asked: Shut the fuck up about 50 shades of grey. No one fucking cares

winchesterinengland:

eriklovescharles:

clarounette:

eriklovescharles:

winchesterinengland:

oh hun

let me just give you a quick run down of all the things wrong with this ask:

1-you assume i care what some asshole anon has to say when i have 300 pounds and i’m going kikass birthday shopping today

2-you assume id care about some asshole anon any other day of the year

3-i care about the 50 shades of grey thing. and whether you do or not is irrelevant to me because you are, after all, just an asshole anon

4- this is my blog and i’ll post whatever the fuck i want, if you cant take three fucking posts about something without turning into a soggy cum stained dishrag then i suggest you make use of that unfollow button because youre gross

5- lemme break this down for you

if you dont care about this 50 shades situation, you need to grow the fuck up and look at the facts

the fact is the book was so misinformed that all the practises about bdsm culture were ignored and shit all over.

he ignores the safeword

he legitimately rapes her

he never explains everything about bdsm culture to her, shes so misinformed its ridiculous

and all of this is going even more public than it already has and its being romanticised and released on valentines day 

like “happy valentines honey! i bought some ropes i dont actually know how to tie and a whip i dont actually know how to use and i’m going to just gloss over the fact you’re uncomfortable because that clearly doesnt matter!”

incorrect use of a whip can cause organ failure

incorrect knots used on wristst or feet can literally cause them to need to be amputated

its perpetuating rape culture in ways ive never seen it be advanced to this leve; and if you dont care then youre truly disgusting 

you dont care about the kids not fully understanding their sexuality being abused by older people who they think are totally allowed to do this shit?

you dont care about the people that will be raped because of this because hey apparently rape is sexy?

you dont care about the fact that the bdsm culture is, once again, being portrayed as people who are fucked up and must have been abused to be that way rather than normal people who enjoy a kink in their own homes?

you dont care about the fact that youre not supposed to bleed on your first time. ever. and now tons more girls are going to think that its completely normal? that tons more guys will? that tons of people are going to think its expected for the female to bleed when SHE WONT IF SHES BEEN SUFFICIENTLY TURNED ON AND STRETCHED ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD

you dont care about the stereotype of subs not actually enjoying bdsm culture is being widespread? that all subs dislike it and simply have an ulterior motive?

you dont care about the underlying message of the book being “a woman should give everything, including herself, to a man”?

you dont care about all the people in abusive relationships that will think “oh well this must be normal then” and stay there?

christian grey is a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. he isnt a dom. 

a dom loves his/her sub completely and the motto of bdsm is "safe, willing and sane" (or something like that anyone feel free to correct me)

it means that both partners have to be completely willing, with boundaries, safewords and everything worked out before they even think about touching eachother intimately. 

if something is a boundary, you dont fucking do it

that simple

if the safeword is used it stops. everything stops

that simple

a dom should treat his sub like a goddamn princess (unless they have prearranged and understand that he wont eg-pet play, slave play where anything outside of the bedroom is also in the same dynamic HOWEVER IT IS STILL CONSENSUAL SO IT IS STILL OKAY)

a dom is not christian grey

but millions of people are going to think he is and are going to think that thats the way bdsm should be and they’ll get involved in something very dangerous if they dont have the real facts.

that people will think its romantic because this shit is scheduled for valentines day  to treat your partner like shit, abuse her, and that what? getting them off absorbs you of all your shit? no. this is so fucking gross and im not taking a backseat when this shit happens

so in conclusion

literally fuck you, you insensitive fuck stain, this issue is so fucking important.

Wait a second. I understand this anon was wrong to tell you to “shut the fuck up..” That was stupid and rude. You can express anything you want on your blog.

However, I disagree that he/she needs to care about the book “50 Shades of Grey”. I mean - you can voice this opinion - but it sounds a bit strange.

Why should I or anyone else on the planet give a flying fuck about that fictional book. Seriously, you think I (and millions of others people) need to care about this fictional book? I guess I must be an “insensitive fuck stain” too - since I don’t find this issue “so fucking important”.

Are there any other “insensitive fuck stains” besides me on Tumblr? Actually, I bet my ex, Ashton, is another ‘insensitive fuck stain’ - I don’t think he gives a fuck about 50 Shades of Grey. LOL

I don’t really care either, but I think it’s still disturbing that the most awful piece of shit of dirty fanfiction has been made a book, and now a movie.

I mean, movie producers usually are prude when they have to show, like, a woman having pleasure, or consensual sex, on screen, but they agreed to make a movie about sexual abuse? Something is wrong here.

1. WE haven’t seen the movie. Therefore we have no idea of the changes probably made. IN other words; the screenplay and the actual book are probably going to be very different. They usually care…

2. Why shouldn’t there be books/movies about sexual abuse? How else do you have a conversation about this issue if you keep it hidden?

3. You are officially an insensitive fuck stain. Welcome to the club. :- )

1- well yeah…but theyre going off the book…in the assumption that it will be similar this is really problematic. its all well and good to say it might not be like that but theres a pretty fucking big chance that it will be and thats a big goddamn problem if it will be. im not going to take a backseat and be silent about the possibility of uneducated bullshit influencing peoples minds in a way that could seriously hurt and even kill them just because “it might be changed”

2- there should be books and movies about sexual abuse.

but this isnt one of them

this is a book about what is supposedly a bdsm relationship that in all actuality is an abusive relationship because the author did little to no research on the topic because it was a fucking fanfiction to begin with

this isnt about abusive relationships getting screentime, which they totally should that needs to be brought more attention to, but the fact is, is that this isnt being portrayed as “this is an abusive relationship and you should watch out for this” its portrayed as “this is a super happy healthy bdsm relationship! they get married! its all happy look! its coming out on valentines day look how romantic and sweet this is!” and that message will be spread and thats a huge issue

3- dont insult me on a topic you clearly dont know enough on

1. You said, “I’m not going to take a backseat and be silent about the possibility of uneducated bullshit influencing peoples minds in a way that could seriously hurt and even kill them just because “it might be changed”” WOW. A very big hurdle to undertake. People are constantly being influenced by stupid shit. Constantly. Whether it is books, music, movies, fashion etc. And I understand your desire to educate people about the difference between “reality” and the book. But the book is tagged as “fictional” - so that means everything and anything within the book is considered “made up”. And hopefully the masses will understand that. But good luck either way. You just sound very, very angry about a fictional book. And there always going to be books, movies, art, music etc that is going to contain stuff that will make you mad. Go easy or you will have a heart attack. :-)

2. Yes, well. I hate super hero movies and they keep making those damn things. What can we do, right ?

3. And what topic do you THINK that I don’t know clearly enough? Sex abuse? Bad relationships? You have no idea what I’ve endured in my life. Don’t be so quick to think otherwise. That’s probably a worst insult that just calling me a fucking insensitive fuck stain.

No one is insulting you. You are insulting everyone. There can be discussion and debate without insults. Try it. Or else the people you are trying to educate will only get turned off. Happy Birthday. :-)

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Read Dennis Cooper. And then come back on Tumblr and talk about how a writer can make you cringe. Seriously, I want all m/m book fans to read Dennis Cooper. - Nicolas

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